Sex is always better case than marriage?
Much of the time, when people mention sex case, we assume that this is so good it is almost mind-blowing. I assume that the fact that this is good enough to be worth the risk. Many spouses who cheat anyone they also make this assumption, even if their spouse everything in his power to claim that this is not true.
For example, you might hear a conversation like this:.. "My husband is trying to claim that he was having sex will not in fact, he insists that sex is no good saying that sex is right with me and the other women did not really know what they want. but it says that the point of the matter never had sex. he reportedly attracted to her because she listened to and supported, at least so says . I think that he just says he does not want me to tone up sex if we stay together. everyone knows that sex is good money, is not it? "
Well, everyone assumes it. But it was the people's opinions, that relationship was most definitely not about sex, it's like her husband. Many say that the case was more the excitement, emotional attachment and support, and for someone who seems to appreciate them, without expectations.
For example, a husband may say, "If people see the other woman, always assume that I only sex I did not I would not say that there was no sex, because we But it was never… the draw for me. I've been friends with other women for a long time. I made some bad investments meant that I had to cut back on my spending. This is me wife treat me differently. he always crazy, and he's always making sarcastic comments about me. the another woman then & # 39;. t like that he's happy to just go and have a picnic lunch and conversation can not expect to buy her things, and she does not want to take care of his content just me it's a… such a huge relief when facing the expectations of my wife. "
I hear such comments lot. And I hear them people who have no reason to lie. I do not know, their spouses, so I can not possibly put in a good word for them. I want someone to unload her feelings, which is why it often had an affair in the first place.
And I'm not saying that it excuses them. There is no excuse. But, I think based on matters of emotion just as dangerous, if not more so, than matters that are the basis of sex. Anytime you get the spouse of someone in the family needs met, that's the problem.
But many therapists and professionals will tell you that a case is much more than just sex. I'm not a professional, but I certainly do not believe it. Sex is only one aspect of the relationship, but this is certainly not the only consideration.
Many people can not possibly believe that a man risking your marriage or family bad sex. The thing is, sex is not his end result. His final result more and emotional needs are met. His end result is that the other woman did not make him feel pressure. He makes her feel relevant again.
Now this is the reality? Most certainly not. If the case continues, it is very likely that the other woman would develop expectations over time. People want to believe that their affair partner does not want anything from them, or have no expectations or demands. But it's not unrealistic to expect that things will always be that way. The more serious and long-term relationship, there will be more expectations.
And then it happens, the husband often lose interest because they know that the expectations at home with no trouble at all.
of course, the original question was sex then let's go back to that. Many people will tell you that the sex ratio is amazing and some of them really believe. But most people will tell you that having sex with the same person over time (such as a spouse) is good sex, because the person knows. They know what you like and what you do not like. You are likely to be refined in a physical relationship in the long run.
The case of a person can not say that. The relationship is often just the beginning. Of course, there is a little new, but it is still too soon pass. Sometimes the sex started to look good, even great, but once this is nothing new, nothing special.
I can not possibly say or guess what sex was like a husband and the other woman. But I can tell you that not everyone says that the matter of sex is always good. Many people will tell you that it was nothing special, but it was fine with them, because the intercourse was not a draw. The fact that the other person managed to make you feel was the draw. Or the relief they felt some stress or short coming of the draw.